I totally love Jen, I would be Jen if I could have my druthers, I mean honestly, Jen is the kid that my aparents wanted, so kind, so diplomatic. Maybe she can go to their Christmas party this year. And she is IRISH for crying out loud, another breed I was warned against as being “too emotional”

I was at adoptedJane’s blog and took her quiz

Your Inner Child Is Happy

You see life as simple, and simple is a very good thing. You’re cheerful and upbeat, taking everything as it comes. And you decide not to worry, even when things look bad. You figure there’s just so many great things to look forward to.

expecting to see just how angry my inner child is, and then of course, my inner child is not so angry.

Well Jesus Adoptee Christ, I am so famous for being angsty and yet every internet quiz tells me I am happy go lucky. What are other people feeling?

Maybe they are like Joey. A happy adoptee who like happy Jack spend their happy time beating up on people. Nicole’s blog is really the best for adoption blog drama. I love it. For one thing Nicole is so articulate, for another, she allows people there, I mean Joey would have been so mocked and deleted from my personal space.

It is interesting how most often the offenders are adoptees or aparents, although I can think of some natural parents who are incredibly offensive as well.. I mean if you are stupid OR cruel, I can forgive, the combination of stupid and cruel is where I draw the line.

Looking around the wonderful blog world, I also see people posting the 10 things they want to get off their chests. Which is cool, but also makes me think I have zero things to get off my chest, all the things needing off, are off.

That doesn’t mean I am pro-adoption, that doesn’t mean I haven’t suffered grievously, I have, no question, and it doesn’t mean any of my parents have EVER recompsensed what they did to me, no fucking way.

I was parentified all down every line. No question.

And yet I find happiness.